Change is inevitable

As I explore my journey, I need to say that things didn't exactly turn out the way I planned. As you might be aware, I have been cheated, duped, criticized and eventually, I chose to believe that I am not safe even in my own country. The very own country, for which my ancestors sacrificed their very own lives, I am not feeling safe in this country. When I think about the safety and security of ladies and girls, I feel ashamed about my upbringing and my thought process. 

My endeavour is to awaken the youth of the nation. When I see people like Dhruv Rathee becoming famous, I feel sad about the upbringing of the youth of this nation. Why are you idolizing Gandhi and influencers like Rathee? Living a short life is better than living a life like a donkey. Today, India is known for warriors who fought fearlessly. Shivaji Maharaj, Prithviraj Chauhan, and countless other brave people sacrificed their lives to protect the people of India. Bharat is not a piece of land, it represents everything that we are made of. Goswami Tulsidas wrote Hanuman Chalisa and there are renowned astrophysics like Aryabhatta who were born in India. People like Swami Vivekananda inspired youth to remain selfless and express gratitude for what they have. 

I understand that noone is perfect and with the information that is available these days, it becomes crucial for us to embrace uncertainty and become careful. Selecting what you consume is very vital. My endeavour is to provide you quality content. I am a certified author and I have explored various different cities of India. Today, many youth are asking me that what should be pursue. Infact, the company I am working with, has people from all places. People from Kashmir, Bengal, Chennai and even Haryana are a part of the organization. And when I saw Anand Mahindra's comment that I love seeing my wife, I was just thinking that such should be the mindset of every Indian. Today, hookup culture in Delhi has spoiled the mentality of Indias. Youngsters are living together and doing everything that is prohibited. Infact, when I joined Tech Mahindra, I could see gentlemen discussing these things. How people are getting together into small apartments and satisfying their lust and thirst. People are horny and need sex to satisfy their dick and pussy. As a gentlemen, you need to think about the country. India is lagging behind in every aspect and it is because of the mentality. 

BJP goverment is doing everything possible to make India a recognised superpower. The major thing that youth of India needs to focus on is building something of their own. Startups should be focus instead of hookup and dating. Today, there is very limited awareness among youth about starting a business. Poor financial knowledge is making people spend money without knowing its value. Why do you think I caught into all these things? Am I not educated and literate? I am adult enough to understand the different facets of life. I graduated from a reputed college and my grades in school were also fine. 

But, I got into this trap of attracting girls because of hormones. My hormones were all over the place. And then, you have content like CA Topper Tribhuvan Mishra that inspires youth to pursue these hobbies. I didn't intend to become a Playboy and provide service to girls. I just wanted a genuine relationship where I could have expressed my opinions to my partner. I explored fucking everything. I attended clubs, bars, hotels, restaurants, and even purchased membership of various popular dating apps. What I didn't know was that I was too naive to even approach a girl. I never had interacted with any girl in my life. Yes, I did move to various places and I was a good person. I could mingle with just any person. But, I never talked to a girl, not even as a friend. And when, I thought, it's love and attraction, I realized that it's all hormones. At a certain age, men and women behave in a different way. A child is born and starts crying. That's normal behaviour. When we approach adulthood, our hormones took over our mind. You must have seen it in schools and colleges. Students don't study, they focus on getting engaged. Many youth of the country focus on going to gym and building their abs and muscles. This is bullshit. Why? Because, money is everything. It's fucking everything. Today, when you ask someone for 10 rupees, you don't get a response. You realise that your parents are the only people who care about you. Some people might have friends but I don't believe that they are helpful. Everyone is there with you for a purpose. Why do you think I am alone? It's because I am who I am. I just love being myself. So, my friends, life is fragile and limited. Every one among us has 24 hours yet some people are so successful and profitable while others struggle to an extent that they have to beg on streets, and ask for help from people. I travel everyday from office in Noida to Delhi and find young children begging for money in traffic conditions. There is risk involved but these childrens are forcefully asked to join these kind of things.

Always prioritise your self-respect and ego. Even if you are desperate and in a critical condition, you shouldn't let anyone know about your weakness. I have now realized what went wrong with me. I went haywire and forgot everything. I started chasing women like a mad dog. The thing is that, you don't get what you are after. You get what you deserve. Or, in other words, if you give too much attention to someone, they will think that you are their puppet. I loved my father and lived with him for one year in Bengaluru. I took everything for granted. He worked hard everyday to put food on my plate. I asked for more. I asked for a new mobile phone. I asked for a bike. I refused to eat from retail outlets. Everytime, he suggested me something, I refused his advise and ordered recklessly from Zomato and Swiggy. I spent money and didn't save anything. I got fired from both my jobs and what I thought didn't work out. I thought I would get to visit Japan. I was informed by employer Paswan sir that I don't have a clever mindset. I wouldn't be able to survive in this salary. I begged in front of them and told them to please give me this opportunity. Later, I heard, that entire batch got dismissed. I was the first one to be fired because I couldn't grasp Japanese language( Hiragana, Katakana), but little did I knew, that someone fucked up and employer condemned the whole batch. After that, I approached the institute from where I learned Cloud Computing. I didn't learn anything, I was intersted in just getting a job. So, I got a job. The employee helped me in every way possible but I kept taking things for granted. Little did I know that life would fuck me up all over. It's important to work in a place where you enjoy yourself. Just getting a job isnt enough. If you get just anything, you will be available. When you are available, you get cheap opportunities. When you think big and work towards something whole heartedly, you get it. Sometimes, I thought about people who have their homes in Bengaluru. I always thought that they have everything sorted. But, to my surprise, humans could never be satisfied. People living there want to get a job in Gurugram and people living in Dubai want to get a job in California. People working in Google want to work for Microsoft. People working for Tech Mahindra want to work for Accenture and Infosys. Businessman are competing against each other to attain top positions because people at the top are recognized and valued. This thing is basic. In Netflix, you get to see what Top 10 Movies are in India region. This is something that drives Indians crazy. Netflix personalizes content based on individual requirements. These tech companies today are the biggest game changers. The data they have is humongous and this data is lethal for Indians. Americans are ruling us mentally and physically. Anything that is uploaded on internet doesn't get deleted ever. There are footprints that can be traced by forensics department and investigators. In India, when a children is born, parents take a picture and upload it online. This enables naughty people with bad intention to manipulate their behaviour and eventually force these parents into paying money for getting morphed images and videos deleted. But, these things are circulated everywhere. Even if you pay ransom, there is miniscule chance that you will get what you were promised. It's like thinking of getting your mobile phone back after it's stolen. Or, thinking that you will get your money back after you gave it to someone. I was naive and my hormones ruled my judgement due to which I lost the ability to think logically. I suffered financial losses and couldn't blame anyone but myself for being so ignorant. 

I did approach police and other law enforcement agencies but as you already know, nothing could be done when you yourself made the payment. So, if you are making payments online through your phone, be careful. Once you initiate the transaction, there are very little chances that you will get your money back. Everywhere, be careful. If you are looking to sell something on OLX India, be careful with whom you interact. You might receive call from a person who expresses their interest in purchasing the equipment you posted advertisemnet of. Then, they will tell you that they are paying 1 rupees first to confirm the transaction. They will make it sound like they are paying you money and send you a QR code to scan on WhatsApp or Telegram. You will scan it and make payment. Scanning is always done to make payment. To receive payment, the other party needs to scan the QR Code. Whenever you are scanning a QR code, you are making the payment and the beneficiary receives amount instantly. In dating apps, people are making profiles of girls and getting thousands of matches. There are no restrictions for these people. There is no way through which these people can be caught. These apps allow anyone with some photos to use their services. Everytime, I thought I got a match. I was tricked. It was all a game. It was a boy who was behind all this. And when the meeting had been arranged, these people kept close watch and made sure that I ended up paying money. These people were involved and operated in a group. Little did I know that I was sending messages to a boy. Recently, a girl named Kanika Reddy sent me a friend request on Telegram through Flirtu bot, and I got excited and revealed too much to that boy(Aryan). Later, I realized that this was not a girl but a boy. When you call them, they won't pick up your call. They will call you and a girl will speak in a way that you will start doubting your existence. These people are sparing no one and every place is infected. I was asked to come in Karol Bagh, Delhi. I travelled for 60 kms and reached to meet the girl. Oops, girl kept asking for money. In multiple instances, I transferred INR 15000 to this person. Later, someone called me and told me that FIR has been registered under your name. I was in office and kept on speaker, colleagues started saying that go outside and speak. So, you see, this world doesn't happen anyone. I went outside and realized it is a hoax. Similar incidents had happened in just a span of 6 months. 

I couldn't help but share this with you so that you can guard yourself against these crimes. My endeavour is to inspire youth of India to take up noble professions and courses to contribute to the growth and profitability of the country. When I approached a girl in my office, that girl threatened me that by citing POSH. I am so sick of this bullshit. If a girl kisses a boy in public, no one says a damn thing. Just imagine, if a boy kisses a girl in open public space, that boy will be beaten up by people. This is just one example. Girl child isn't getting empowered but getting careless and insensitive. These bitches are participating with bastards to get profit. The profiles you see online are duplicate and their sole target is to trap men like you. You will be chatting with a boy and you will meet a girl. By the time you realise you been cheated, it will be late. This world is so greedy that people are ready to kill you. No one gives a fucking damn about you. If you speak something that is true, people will want to get you killed. There are people who commit heinous crimes and they get punished for it. But, what about all of us? Aren't we greedy and selfish? I recall one incident when I was in school. Childrens are my tiffin box and I mentioned this to my mother. She told me that it's not bad to share food with your friends but you should ensure that you have enough. I stopped taking tiffin box after that incident. The point is very simple. At that time, there was this student named Aryan Sharma who stole the pursue of a female teacher. That student hid the purse of that female teacher beneath the idol of Goddess Saraswati. The boy was caught later as principal ordered an inquiry and CCTV footage revealed the identify of the theif. Gosh, at that age, my intention was to study, and acquire information. Kids in India in established institutions like Kendriya Vidyalaya engaged in these things. Does people not give money to these students? What is the reason that someone is forced to steal money, or commit other crimes? In office, their have been repeated incidents of my bike tyre going flat. I keep wondering what the fuck went wrong with the parking security in Tech Mahindra office. Everytime, this happens, I don't look inside myself but start guessing who one might have done this because I know for a fact, that I wouldn't puncture the tyres of my own bike. But, I am hoping that India will prosper and become a great nation. Youth must come forward and focus on building startups and businesses to take India to great heights. Learn from minds like Swami Vivekananda, read about the history of your ancestors, read Scriptures like Ramayan and Mahabharat, learn about renowned astrophysics and Indian scientists. Learn from these great personalities and inculcate these values in your life to take India to greater heights. Bringing a change is only possible when you stop watching Dhruv Rathee's videos and acquire useful information by learning through Internshala, LinkedIn Learning and other creators on YouTube who teach valuable content. People like Khan Sir are a gem because they impart education to young minds of this country. Follow these visionary people. Follow people who started from nowhere and achieved everything. And always remember, never take advise from someone who hasn't been in the thick of it, meaning, if you want to get into IT, you don't read articles of Chetan Bhagat. If you want to become a journalist, you don't watch Squid Game on Netflix and read Chetan Bhagat novels and books. When you are in IT, build connections and learn from everyone. Never think of anyone as being less. Forget about what people do. I shared these things above to let you know about the world we are living in. You need to understand that people never change. You can change yourself and become better. When you achieve success and happiness, you will get whatever you want. Youngest IAS officer in India belongs to a Muslim background. Mohammed Shami and Siraj are Muslims but they never let their identify come before nation. They worked hard to achieve this goal. The respect isn't of the person but of the position. Instead of getting jealous and blaming circumstances and people, focus on building yourself and you will see good things happening. I am headed towards my native town Dharamshala, Himachal and will start a new journey. I will board Volvo Bus from Maharana Pratap ISBT Kashmiri Gate and reach destination. It will take 12 hours and my ass will get sore. I say this from experience. But, I will stay calm and focused. The results will be achieved only when you stay still. If you keep taking every alternative route that falls in the place, that you will never reach your potential. You will end up sucking someone's dick in Kurukshetra or Panipat. You get the idea. So, stay calm, stay patient, stay focused, don't think about what happened in the past. You lost your foot, your Muslim friend talks that cow is eating garbage, or your Christian friend is a fan of superstar Vijay Thalapathy, just be yourself, do what you want, and make sure to not hurt anyone in the process because things come back. Nothing ever stats the same. Even your dick is soft and fragile when you are worried and frustrated, but when a woman gets all over you, you get horny and erection arouses in your penis and you will confident enough that you will rule the territory. Just play the game, my friend. You don't have legs or shoulders, I don't care. Nobody cares. You are a son of a defence personnel, you are whatever you think you are, it's baseless and doesn't count for anything. Be a man and own up for your actions. Be responsible and provide for the family. Until next time, signing off...