Keep your eyes open and be more confident

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As you might be aware, I have had been duped by fraudsters in the recent 6 months. I was approached by girls in dating apps, when I reached venue, these unknown girls took me to unidentified locations and the cashier handed over the bill to me. After receiving the bill, I got awestruck but couldn't do anything. I was literally forced to pay the amount. These girls made excuses and left the location immediately after that. I didn't have the amount and asked my friends to help me. No one turned out and I was left alone to deal with this situation. I had recently received my salary which I had told to these girls. Anyhow, I paid the amount through Paytm UPI and left these clubs. 

The location of these clubs is as follows. The first incident happened to me in RDC Ghaziabad. The name of the club is The Taste of Terrace( it's just close to Bikanervala Shop). The name of the cashier is Ravi Kumar. I have already attached the relevant screenshots in my LinkedIn profile and you should go check it out. The items ordered were drinks, cigarettes, momos and chowmein. These people inflated the prices by adding taxes and fees. The second incident happened in the club The Vaccine. This happened in Rajouri Garden, Punjabi Bagh, New Delhi. The girl left me for nothing and even abused me by saying that I am a beggar. I was humiliated and felt like an idiot. 

This stupidity didn't save me from these things. I started to imagine more beautiful things. Everything became worse when I saw this webseries on Netflix: CA Tribhuvan Mishra. Following along the same lines, I discovered these websites that claim to offer men handsome prizes. In any of these cases, as you are already aware, I couldn't even touch a single girl. I couldn't kiss or hug. Fucking is a distant dream. I was left to rote and no one cared. These things opened my eyes and I came across this YouTube channel Iron Man Lifestyle that's run by Kshitiz Sehrawat. I took their course Attraction Decoded and scheduled a session with their counsellor. Their counsellor advised me to keep my eyes open and approach these places with caution and care. I asked him to please help me with the name of some genuine clubs where I wouldn't get cheated but he told that this information can't be disclosed and started persuading me to purchase their Simp to Stud course( currently priced at 10k).

These things took a toll on my mental health and so I visited Delhi Mind Clinic. I was referred to Ms. Sugandha Gupta and she too couldn't believe these stories I told her. She advised me to stay clear of these dating apps. Over time, I understood that these dating apps are designed specifically for gaining attention. Women get 100's of matches and men get very little attention. When these men do get attention, these men think that they have accomplished something significant. Similarly, I was in this pool. I couldn't help but overthink and that's when I knew I was fucked. I approached law enforcement agencies but to no avail. These officers asked me to explain why I visited these unidentified places. Obviously, I couldn't explain any of it.

Then, I started getting matches on Shaadi and Bumble. Then, I was approached by people who claimed they are from Gigolo and they provide all India dating services. These people kidnap young girls and force them to enter the world of crime and sexual activities. I came in contact me with many types of people and I kept losing money.

At one point, I thought to myself, that these people would even take away my bike. One fine day, when I decided to a meet a girl( I befriended on Shaadi), my bike was parked alongside and it got picked up by a vehicle. I started running after that vehicle and found out that these people targeted vehicles that seemed relatively new and were having clear parts. I paid 1000 as payment to retrieve my bike from these unknown people. I was already getting late for my meeting but I did try to identify the real identity of these miscreants. I approached one Delhi Police constable and he told me to pay the amount as it was accurate. I couldn't help but pay the amount. Every single time, these people duped me into paying money and I kept paying it as I couldn't see my way through. 

I met this girl online via Flirtu bot. Girl named Kanika Reddy expressed interest in my innocent profile. I developed feelings for this unknown girl and revealed so much confidential information to her, hoping that I would get to see her. In one such incident, that I can recall, I was left stranded and no one showed up. I kept paying money in different amounts and I was screwed. I didn't know who to tell or what to do. When I thought there's some improvement, I got disappointed. What an absolute fucking bitch! These bitches will call you and record these intimate moments and circulate it online and demand money from your relatives and family members. Many people get afraid and commit suicide or think about ending their lives. In this situation, you should not pay any amount to these fraudsters. If and when you decide to pay amount, you get cheated. Maintain your composure and stay calm. Breathe deeply. Stay grounded.

Ok, so now you know that these things are happening in the middle of nowhere. It's not Seoul but New Delhi. Just when you think you hit a jackpot, step back, and think about it. Never take anything for granted. Once you have been cheated, there's no way you are going to get your money back. Remember that and you will be safe. After all this, I started keeping things to myself and locked myself inside a room. I started watching movies like Laila Majnu and Notebook and thought of myself as Majnu and Kabir. It was a nice feeling because I could relate myself to these people.

In my personal life, I am not doing well. Due to these changes, I was occupied by these events. Nothing else seemed to entertain me. All I could think about was pussy. Elders kept telling me that you should focus on your career and settle down. I denied it and didn't pay any heed whatsoever to their advise. I was just lost in my own thoughts. I chased pussy, despite knowing the fact that I have written Men's Lifestyle Simplified and the rest is history. 

When I think about it, I feel ashamed of myself. Our ancestors laid down their lives for this nation. They didn't chase girls. They choose to pursue freedom. They were concerned about the welfare of the citizens. I have resigned from Tech Mahindra, Noida and I am looking to pursue something meaningful. My close associates in Hyderabad have been telling me to pursue software development and it feels like I need to do something creative and exciting. Customer service is okay but this isn't something that I could do for my entire life. 

Knowledge doesn't get burnt. History cannot be distorted. Courage cannot be eliminated. Girls weapon is their beauty and men's weapon is their strength. As I step into new year 2025, I look forward to building meaningful relationships and experiences.

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