Science behind attraction

Hello people. What's cooking? Today, we are going to delve deeper into the human psychology. Is a male gaze responsible for women getting boring and unattracted? Guys, guys, let me get this straight. I am no Superman and I would like to present everything in a form that's acceptable and understandable to most of you people, residing in India ( it even will resonate with you if you are NRI). So, what's attraction? 

Studies have revelaved that men get excited way too much when they see women in Porn. In America, people search for Mom, Stepmom, and MILF. These three keywords are most searched. Today, when you hop onto Google, the most trending searches are listed. You can view information by accessing these websites. As recently as yesterday, India defeated England. The hosts were competing against English Team in the fourth T20I. When I look at things, I perceive that men are more strong and dominant. I mean, isn't it common sense. When you see women players like Harmanpreet Kaur playing, and then, compare it with shots of Shubman Gill and Virat Kohli. Even when Kohli is playing in Ranji, the viewers are way more. At this point, I wouldn't like to discuss the intricacies of the most talked about things like promoting other sports (Hockey and Badminton to include a few). I perceive things the way they are. Gentlemen, what do you think? I have been to every part of India and I am no foreign minister like S. Jaishankar but I found out that cricket as a sport is welcoming and invites boys across country. I tried my hands on volleyball but bullies shied me away. Some people have the tendency to make you feel less inferior and jealous. Remember the name, Aryan Sharma. I know, it's like spreading hatred and inciting violence against someone but when someone does something wrong, it needs to spread out in the open.

Okay, so, let's get back to attraction. And mind you, these things are to make you aware about the things that are happening right now in India in 2025. Mere reading won't do you any good and so, I would humbly request you people to use these tips in your daily life to safeguard yourselves against these people. See, if today, you do something, that brings bad name to your family, it will destroy your image and reputation. And so as mentioned by some sage, which is so true, if you can't do any good, atleast don't do any harm. 

And guys, let me be clear about it. I am not a preacher or a scientist. I am an engineer who is passionate about talking India to greater Heights. Irrespective of anyone's religion or gender or sexual orientation, I believe in actions. A man may say anything but to me, actions mean everything. If a man is doing everything and providing for the family, then that man is right. See, just like anyone, I have been consuming content online on Netflix and YouTube. As we all know, these entities are governed by American institutions. Now, I may not be intellectual enough to say much about how these technology giants operate, but in the realm of today's world, it's evident that these tech giants store, collect, and process this personal information to target you with with ads and personalize your feed. The moment you open YouTube or Facebook, you are shown things that interest you which makes you stick and explore more. Eventually, you feel like diving deeper and end up some so much time. Now, in today's world, these digital devices have been an integral part of lives because they make us gain so much awareness about the world around us and so, denying the reality or abandoning technology altogether isn't a feasible solution. Cybercrimes and child pornography concerns me the most. These things have taken several people and organisations hostage. If you don't pay ransom, your systems are infected with viruses and malware. 

I am an elder brother and when I see at the content that is circulated online, I see that movies like Boss and webseries like CAT resonate with me. Unluckily, I don't get any action. Yeah, Sunny gets action( as we saw in CAT). But, this is another myth that has spoiled the minds of millions of young Indians. What do you think happens when young Indians watch these things? You won't believe it but my video was termed abusive and unpopular by YouTube. I tried to capture every interaction I had with fraudsters. The video length was around 12 minutes. I tried again but YouTube won't let me upload the video. I tried ignoring some images that were morphed and unidentical. Some images that showed explicit content and sexually explicit content. Now, mind you, it was all a game wherein some male or multiple males or even transgenders were manipulating me into believing that I am having a real conversation with a legitimate sweet Indian girl residing in Delhi or in the outskirts of Delhi, Ghaziabad, Faridabad, Badarpur, Noida. You have things like Pushpa 2 and Haseena Dilruba that are being viewed by Indian people. What do you expect to happen. Highway love and what not is being loved by Indians. The directors take liberty and CBFC, Mumbai doesn't restrict much. Everything gets online, and as I told earlier, nothing that comes up online is deleted forever. So, you might think, that you are safe using VPN and private browser, but trust me, you are not. Why do you think someone would mask your IP address? These identities sell your information to interested advertisers. The data that you browse through when comnected to VPN is gold. Information is valuable. Companies have understood this and this is being used against us. So many of us choose to indulge in mindless activities like consuming reels on Instagram. Now, I get it. I am guilty of doing it too. I never used TikTok but what would you expect out of a person when Instgram and YouTube and even LinkedIn rolls out short videos. And irony is that these short videos are promoted more by these platforms, probably for the reason, that these short vidoes have the potential to target great visitors. Influencing your decisions becomes easier through short vidoes. I mean, if you would find something interesting, in 10 seconds, wouldn't you be drawn towards it. 

I have myself made countless purchases. I am watching reels and you know that feeling, an ad shows up. Who will your life partner be? How do you get girl's to like you? I am like, I have written a whole damn book about it but I still find it fascinating. Why? Because, in reality, I never had the pleasure of talking to any girl. Neither was I blessed with a sister. So, I am like, even this is okay. And then, the choices, I took, engineering and what not, made me even doubt myself more. I mean, would you believe it when I say that I kept myself private during my first year of engineering. People would talk that they masturbate and talk to random girls. My father always told me that people lie and do something else. I wouldn't find it correct. Usually, we are like this. Parents are not around until we realize what they did for us. But what I learned was that everything is temporary, these boys I thought affected me so much didn't matter much. I was concerned because I thought of myself to be a studious person. But I am sure, that the situation in premier engineering institutions would be even worse and so rightly, so many people could relate with the movie 3 Idiots. 

Anyway, then I came to realize that people are just self-centred. I told you about this one thing also right. There was this guy, named Ritik Chandel. We used to be good friends. One fine day, he called me out and told that I am selfish. I was like, what the heck? When you analyse, you find out that people will call you selfish when you are of no use to them. I am still learning and as a writer, I feel that it's my responsibility to make you aware. I know, putting out names in the open isn't a right way but I am transparent with my audience. Guys, you need to be authentic. You will get the right people. Trust me. I have always been reserved and secretive. But, to the people I love, I openly share stuff. And so, you get the right people. You don't have put special efforts to attract the right person. It just happens. 

And now, coming to attraction. So, people dream about BDSM and so, the idea portrayed in Fifty Shades of Grey exist. Inflicting pain, getting submissive and dominant, are the fantasies of people. Guys, I am not so aware about other sexual orientations ( like LGBTQ and others) but would definitely want to hear out from you. And I don't know, but I must say that be yourself. I mean, I get it. I see these people begging on roads. The moment, I am about to disappear seeing green light on traffic signal, I see that someone is holding my dick. Yeah, that sucks. You wouldn't want anyone to hold your dick right. Now, birth control options are available for women. It started with pills and then surgical procedures. For men, the pills were not that effective and women experienced fatigue and several illnesses in their private parts after using these drugs. For a man, according to my viewpoint, the most safest option is to use a condom and avoid having sex with multiple partners. I mean, AIDS can spread through more ways than you might now. From a mother to a newborn infant, or from a carer to a person who is being cared, from someone who are using shared utensils, and then, the most, common factor that all Indians know, is through direct contact. 

Guys, let's be clear. Evolution didn't happen for nothing. Our genes have stood the test of time and everything's under control. The people, you choose to interact with, the environmental conditions you grew up in, affect your priorities. The girl you would like, these decisions depend on the way you were brought up. And this is why people in the west would not ideally find Indian men attractive or suitable for marriage. Indians, on the contrary, prefer Indian women and things like Savita Bhabhi are trending even today. Johny sins and Mia Khalifa, portray illogical visuals. These Americans have just completely lost it. I mean, guys, I am unable to upload a simple video to YouTube. And these people allow creators to spread nudity and vukgarity everywhere. Even on Netflix, Facebook, Instagram, content that is filthy and inappropriate is being available for human consumption. While the real men, real women are being kept hidden. Guys, this is ridiculous and this needs to stop. I mean this is some shit. Harsh Rajput is making videos and exploring life, when creator experiences something weird. In a room where UPSC student is supposedly preparing for the coveted UPSC exam, there is a Russian girl. Oh my gosh, isn't that breathtaking? Now, that girl claims to be from Russia and you know, I am like, on these platforms just for the sake of it, I mean to just stay updated, so, I see, oh wow, even this is okay. 

You are seeing it and can't ignore the fact that where are these students getting these ideas from? I am being defrauded of my savings and when I complain to police in Delhi, I am given advise to enjoy by getting a Russian girl. Luckily for me, I don't take these instructions seriously and mind my own fucking business. I still wonder why I couldn't learn coding and programming. Why I kept denying that coding is the future. But, let be it. I mean, I am so over it. As recently as yesterday, I appeared in an interview for Technical Support Profile in Capgemini, and told something personal, and guess what, the panelists told me that my communication skills is not up to the mark. I mean, guys common. I have been to SSB Allahabad and Jalandhar and I didn't face any problems back then. In my recent interview at Jalandhar, I saw that a guy from South India got screened in and some Punjabis ( wearing a turban) made the cut. I thought to myself that what did I do wrong. I mean, in the screening phase, the story I made was valid enough and entire group supported it. And guys, cut the bullshit. A Muslim boy aspiring to join the Indian armed forces, hearing everytime someone say, Ram is the hero of my story and Ram is doing this and that. I was so fed up of this Ram character and now, I don't want to see SSB. I mean, the people, I saw, who got in, were just kids and possessed the ability to be trained. Yes, they could be trained to be become officers. But, other than that, I don't see any reason to see myself any less of them. But anyway, let selectors do their job. Because there is a way through which things work. I mean, I can say all I want sitting around here doing nothing, but by the end of the day, I got to do something to put food on my table. And yeah, I admit, I was the most obese guy in SSB Jalandhar, yeah, that must have definitely made an wrong impression. And guys, let me be clear, don't just get impressed by anyone. 

You should only bow down to God. If you are a Muslim or a Christian, you people know things. Good job! As a Hindu, whatever God you believe in, just bow down to them. Eat whatever and do whatever, I am no one to restrict your ability to do anything. I mean, if your parents would have withdrawn on time, then you wouldn't have been alive enough to be reading this article written by me. You know me by now, my name is Aditya Singh Thakur and I am from Dharamshala, Himachal Pradesh. I am a Hindu Rajput and I am proud of my friends and family. I am just the way I am and I adore the movies and webseries. Yeah, I mean, Breaking Bad and Mismatched just took my breath away. But guys, if you even got a moment would want my advise, then, don't take these visuals seriously. Yeah, like for serious, man. Just see and hear. Do what you want but build yourself. Guys, the world that we live in, everyone just cares about how much money you have. The girls I met, I know what I said to them. I couldn't help myself. But do you think these people have any shame left. These people are operating with authorities to carry out their hideous operations and people like Arvind Kejriwal ( who have attained education from IIT Kharagpur) are appointing Atishi as CM because Dhruv Rathee made a video supporting the fact that BJP goverment put being AAP workers in Jail. My god, would you even believe that? Kejriwal was reading Gita in jail. My god, this sucks. At least, be upfront about your intentions. PM Narendra Modi is openly admitting that he's a fan of Sardar Vallavbhai Patel and Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj. Englishmen are just doing their job, the way I see it, Butler wants England to win and so does every captain that's representing their country. But what goes on inside matters a lot more than what is being broadcasted live to millions of people. Don't you think? 

Now, men like women with large breasts and women like men who have symmetrical face. Women, when they have periods, choose to like these features and men are just men. But whatever rules or regulations exist, Indians know a way around everything. Kids, are experimenting and they have access to their parents phones. Fuck man, let me tell you this. So, I worked for one year in Tech Mahindra, and I despised this Bengali guy named Arka Mallick. Situation escalated when this man touched my head and do you know, why are such things allowed to happen? Because, the donkeys who select the people have no problem with any of this happening. The only thing that kept me working was the fact that Muslims had thronged Tech Mahindra and the HR who hired me, Karishma Bhatnagar, I had respect for her. And needless to say, the supervisor I worked under was an honest man who worked tirelessly but then again, people like to mingle with everyone and share secrets. I kind of didn't like that. I used to sniff around in office premises like a dog. Yeah, my nose was leaking at times. But the part I loved the most, was smoking. Alcohol never really fascinated me. But eventually, I started coughing way too much and it sounded unnatural. The Bihari roommate found it weird too and so, I quit smoking. Earlier, I went too hard and would smoke up like two packs in a day. But, I couldn't inhale the smoke properly and you know, it was just like a game. I mean, someone I knew made me familiar with the actual process. How you take it all in and then release smoke from the nose. Yeah, nothing fancy about this. To all the youngsters reading this, nothing exciting about it. Man, just eat vegetables and fruits and fucking move your ass. Everything else is just fucking temporary. If you have your mind and body, you can do great things. And fuck relatives and neighbours, just love your parents. Fuck Bengali and Haryanvi, and Kashmiri, this is absolute bullshit, fuck the fact that you are a Baniya and like to make money, just follow your parents, love them. Don't hurt them.

People around you might have attained wealth by doing some fancy things. And sometimes, you might wonder, that why are you less fortunate? My friends, never do that to yourself. Great people have to suffer more. Take it from me, my father too suffered a lot before he reached the position where he is today. Unluckily, he thought that I took him for granted and shit happened. But, anyway, just be content with what you have. Just be yourself, man. You can't get your dick to get tight, just accept it. The moment you touch a girl, you are about to shit in your pants, like ejaculate, just accept it. You see stuff in private in your mobile, fuck that man, even a labourer is happy doing that. Just accept it. 

The way I think of it, life just happens. For some, it's easier to accept the reality. I mean, some die early while others are left around to explore more. And for god's sake, just take it lightly. The fact that I don't understand what surname Mallick is shouldn't surprise or amaze you, when I see someone saying he's Mudgil( and claiming he's a Pandit), just kill me already, man. I see, lot of weird stuff happening. But that's okay. Verma chick going crazy after a Muslim( making reels about it). Kashmiri man screwing a topper girl student in a college in punjab. And you must be thinking, big brother, what were you doing? Well, acting like a fucking narcissistic man who's completely self-absorbed and obsessed about the fact that a Pandit boy took so much interest in my eating habits. And then, there was this guy, man, Chabbra, some close associates of mine had told me that Sardars are psychos, God promise, man, that seems to be true. Even though Sardars ideally respect me, but fuck that right, man, I am a believer of what I see right. The way I see it, yeah, man, all Muslims are kind of following these Sardars for the mere simple fact that Sardars are macho men or so called Mard and women are like soft and fragile. Yeah, Yeah, fuck it. 

I am, so over it, man. You know, when I had earlier written a blog, I deleted it, couldnt even retrieve it, and today, writing it again. But wouldn't delete anything. I mean, the truth must prevail right. See guys, I am very happy that most people I encountered believed in me being honest. I know I can be blunt but this doesn't stop me from spreading awareness. People, oh sweet people. Someone who wants money or maybe even sex or whatever, will try to be kind and generous to you. But, I am done with it. Seriously, I don't give a shit about Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, OkCupid or even so called marriage apps like Jeevansaathi and Shaadi. Would you believe it guys? At one point, I was so desperate, that I messaged this chick who I assumed worked in iEnergizer company in Noida. Chick named Ekta Dixit. And then, she asked for my photo. I sent her my photo with my Dad. To which she replied after 10 days, that I have a boyfriend and blah blah. I could sense it that this bitch lied to my face. And normally, I wouldn't have doubted any of it because my culture doesn't teach me to restrict chicks from openly expressing themselves. Unlike Islam, we have been always open about girls rights. Yeah, like promote girl child and promote girl education.

People might want a man but I am okay with just anyone. As long as the child is honest and cultured, it's fine to me. But seriously, these Muslims might be meat eaters and what not but are damn straightforward. So what, if just One Abdul Kalam. God knows how emperors like Prithviraj Chauhan and Shivaji Maharaj defeated these sick manipulate Mughal bastards. And these so called idiots fantasize about the scenes that are depicting Jodha having romance with Akbar have no idea about what it took to earn freedom. I mean, if even for a moment, we accept that Rajputs were defeated everytime as portrayed in textbooks circulated in Indian schools, what the heck were other Hindus doing. Doesn't that raise a question? To hell with your community being a loser. It doesn't matter to me. If you people can prove your mettle, then you would have been in top positions. But, the topmost positions are occupied by Rajputs and Pandits with Pandits ideally clinching the top spot, as far as I have seen, in every place I have been too. And God promise, Brahmins never know how to bow down. But, that's okay. We should embrace our orginallity and just keep going.

And guys, I intend to make you people aware and safeguard your valuables. So, just be open. Be everywhere. Right? Use things. But never get attached to any one thing. Understand how attraction works. Prepare yourself. Don't look at where you are and what you do. Just use information at your disposal to grow and become better. And if you have suicidal thoughts due to any reasons, just consult someone who you can trust. I certainly won't be available as I have my own things going. I need my sleep and I need my time. I write because I want India to shine and become the most developed nation. Girls should stop dancing and showing their bodies and men are just fine the way they are. Men should just be more ambitious and courageous. And these qualities can be inculcated by imbibing the traits of legendary men like Chauhan and Shivaji. Just go about it, guys. I am on a short vacation. I have shifted from Delhi to Dharamshala and am exploring PUBG and YouTube. My gosh, this sucks. Who uses their phone so carelessly. I guess when it's Dad's money, you become carefree. Using it to navigate directions via Google Maps, placed it in on bike using holder, slipped, due to bad terrain and boom, the aftereffects of disfigurement still remain. And to people who are concerned about Muslims dominating Indian Hindus, I am concerned about quality and not quantity. I admire the Kashmiri men for the truth that they speak but when someone starts raising stones on soldiers and disrespects Indian flag, these people need to be shown the place where they belong.

My friends, this tone and this color, I can understand, I still know that the people residing around are so much egoistic and bad, and I am trying around to become clever and ruthless, but I guess everyone's just the way they are. To my parents, if anyone is reading it, I owe it to you. To Kuldeep Patel, man, you trusted me. Thanks for that! And to all those teachers, including my Biology Mam and Maths teacher who believed in my potential, I know Pandits topped everytime in class but they (instructors) never stopped believing in me. Seriously, the education you have truly matters. One day, I too shall learn the tricks and methodologies. Maa, mujhe sab dikhai de rha hai Mam. Looks like Jaadoo needs to be real character who could help me here. Hey, guys, this was just for fun. Seriously, a person has so many shades, yeah, like fifty shades of grey. So, just keep grilling and hustling. If possible, don't tell people about your plans, it sucks. Of course, if you are telling people that you are preparing for civil services and aspiring to fuck a Russian, that sucks. You are lying to noone but to yourself. So, when you think you are very clever and you got spared, think again and move ahead. And to fuck with your names, not everyone can become Shekhawat, get it straight, so just work on yourself and become whatever you can and contribute in whatever capacity you can to uplift India. Here's to a rising India. I also hereby request Kashmiri Muslims to rise and do not attack Indian soldiers. Soldiers and farmers are very normal. Respect them always. Respect girls and women. You were born from a woman. Hail Lord Ram. Jai Hind!

Wishing you all the best!